Many years back during my first Africa trip to Kenia I saw a lot of (at that time for me) “elderly” women with young African men. I was to busy traveling around and with a group of friends to think about it.
For some years now I am traveling quiet a lot to Africa and I still see women aged 50-60 with these young athletic African men.
I feel sorry not because of what you would think… , like:
-why do these women look for love in Africa?
-toyboys for cugars?
No!!!
I am angry and I think: “is it possible that women from the age of 50 are not attractive anymore in “their” home countries? They need to renounce on love because there is no one who tells them how attractive they still are, someone that love them?
They have to travel far to get a little attention, sex?
Oh gosh, our world is so superficial and broken and with men who only date girls and teenagers and at the age of a little over 35 women are already “out”- I can’t believe it!
Sugar Daddies are norm, but they don’t need to travel, they will find available girls all over. Try to imagine how a Sugar Mama must feel while planning such a trip, while traveling and while looking out for a men…
Men wake up! and it would be so much easier if everyone would look for a same-aged or similar companion!
Help women to get a bit of attention and love again!

[ Smiles ] Yes, sugar mamas do exist. However, I try not to stereotype people.
Now, the younger man that the older African woman is walking around with could either be her son, nephew or bodyguard.
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